Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Cardinal Country, KY
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
Seriously though OP, you are a girl, so this is 1000X easier than being a guy.
Do the following:
1.) Go outside and do things. Don't always have an entourage of women friends either, that way you will have a chance of being approached. Most guys will be hella intimidated to say hi if you have 4 friends at a club. However, if you have one or two, it could happen if the dude has A LOT of confidence.
2.) Try online dating sites, some laugh at this, but it is legit. I've dated girls a couple times from it.
3.) Are you a "looker" aka hot? If so, don't be afraid to show the goods...you don't have to be dressing like a Hooters girl, but if you got killer legs or a nice torso, wear form fitting clothes. When a dude looks over, say hi and I guarantee a 95% chance of that being enough to start a conversation. Most guys dream of the girl actually breaking the ice first.
I just find it hard in today's world a chick cannot find a dude. I really can't fathom it. And before I read: "I only attract a-holes/losers." It isn't you attract them, it is you choose to have them in your life. I've date a-hole women and loser women because I CHOSE to. At the time I thought it wasn't true, but after reflecting on my past, it definitely boils down to me letting them be in my life.
2008 Infiniti G37S Coupe 6MT - 58k - Megan Axle Back
2007 Sky Red Line 5-Speed - 79k - Light mods
2006 Saturn Vue 5-Speed - 103.4k
Last edited by Koobie; 11-15-2010 at 04:40 PM.